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ONLINE DATING

Hello readers , I have been waiting to post this ever since so long.
Online dating , yes it is probably the most in thing of today's generation. Haven't you seen shows like Dare 2 Date at channel V & Splitsvilla at Mtv.  They are interesting because they are based on online dating somehow.
Online dating has been major today because the social networking sites are getting so much popular. From Facebook to instagram people are always updated & active.
But , when you are posting something online its not just about " I don't care " its my life and I can post anything. There are a lot of do's and dont's especially while creating an online dating profile. You can't afford to go wrong in that case.
I have seen a lot of real life couple doing so well after they met through Facebook or any other site. All thanks to the internet for spreading so much of love & romance. The world definitely needs more of that . Don't you think so ?

Well clubbing becomes a part of your life if you live in a city like the city of joy so let me start with parties .
When you meet an attractive woman at a party, you want to show her your best side with your charm turned on.
Your online dating profile is no different , you certainly need to make an everlasting impression.
The difference between real life dating & online dating is that in real life you can correct a faux pas whereas online dating is what I call " Brutal " sometimes.
There are no second chances. No !

Here are nine ways how to get your online profile straight .

1. The pictures you must avoid
Its the first thing anyone is going to see on the dating sites or app. It can make or break your impression.
Your picture shouldn't over or under shell you. Go for a profile picture which looks real .
Don't over edit your pictures using stupid apps.
They will ruin your impression.  Yes
" sabh kuch khatam " situation.

2. No pictures with animals please !!
  " Aww so cute " that is the reaction you get if its you and your cat in the picture. But if you are going for a Python or a tiger then you are going totally wrong .Common its a dating profile , not a national geographic channel based website. Tigers and pythons belong to the wild. Not your profile picture.

3. No topless pictures.
OK wowwwww & so great that you have a six pack but trust me no one wants to see you topless. You are here to meet new people and putting topless pictures will make you look like a narcissistic wannabe.
And as it is " Too much of ang pradarshan is not hygienic for the Indian setup " Well I don't know.

4. Don't show off
Showing off is a big turn off . Smile in your picture of indulging in hobbies you like. This makes you appear approachable.

5.Group photo.
Go for solo pictures. Putting a group picture will make the other person wonder which one you are ??? Besides you don't want her to date your friends. Do you ?

6. The celebrity shot
Pictures with a celebrity? Yes, if you can play its cool. A photo of you freaking out around someone famous isn't a good look( unless its absolutely hilarious ) but putting up a celebrity as a profile picture without you in it is a big " turn off " with zero voltage power cut !!!!!

7. Personal summary.
Keep it short and sweet. People will bit be interested to know how many pets you have or how many cars you have. Keel your likings & hobbies minimal .

8. No to text lingo
Making spelling and grammar mistakes is horrible !!
Plus nowadays people combine them with slangs & text lingo is an attack to the eyes.
You can't expect any  literate person to read through your error filled summary about you.

9. Don't brag !
Confidence is great and even hottt but bragging overconfidently about money & cars shows your stupidity and how fake you are . Go easy about yourself .

10. No demands , please.
You are here to find a partner , not a personal secretary so don't demand.

So this is it for the post today !!
I'm so excited about my photoshoot this coming week with the blog TGIF ( a collaboration)
So stay tuned people .
Thakyou for always reading STT.
Love Gyal !



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